My Hands Used to Shake in Interviews. Here's How I Fixed It.
I remember my first Google interview. Heart racing. Sweaty palms. Voice cracking. I knew the material - I'd prepped for weeks. But when the interview started, my brain went into fight-or-flight mode. I forgot basic things I'd known for years. Bombed the easiest question they asked. The rejection email came two days later.
That experience sent me down a rabbit hole of understanding interview anxiety. Why does it happen? Why can't we just "calm down" when we tell ourselves to? And most importantly - what actually helps?
First, Let's Validate This
Interview anxiety isn't weakness. It's biology. When you perceive a threat (like being evaluated by strangers who control your career), your brain triggers a stress response. Cortisol floods your system. Your prefrontal cortex - the part that handles complex thinking - literally gets less blood flow.
So when your brain "goes blank" in interviews, it's not because you're stupid. It's because your survival systems are overriding your thinking systems. That's actually normal. The question is: how do we work with this instead of against it?
Before the Interview: Preparation That Reduces Anxiety
Over-Prepare on Fundamentals
Anxiety gets worse when you're uncertain. The more automatic your foundational knowledge is, the less your brain has to work under pressure.
I'm talking about the basics: common data structures, Big O analysis, standard algorithms. These should be so ingrained that you could explain them while sleep-deprived. That level of automaticity creates a safety net for your panicking brain.
Simulate the Stress
If you only practice in comfortable conditions, the interview environment will be a shock. You need to practice under stress.
- • Set a timer and stick to it - no extensions
- • Do mock interviews with strangers (Pramp, friends of friends)
- • Practice in uncomfortable conditions - tired, distracted, rushed
- • Record yourself and watch back (uncomfortable but useful)
Over-Prepare with Practice
Thorough preparation reduces anxiety. I started using LastRound AI to practice with AI mock interviews and question banks. Going through dozens of practice rounds before the real interview made me feel prepared, which helped me stay calmer when it counted.
When you've already answered a question 10 times in practice, answering it the 11th time in a real interview feels much less scary.
The Night Before
Don't cram
Last-minute studying increases anxiety without improving performance. Trust your preparation. Review your notes lightly, then stop.
Prepare your setup (for remote interviews)
Test your camera, mic, internet connection. Have water ready. Know where the link is. Reducing logistics stress lets you focus on content.
Get sleep
Sleep deprivation amplifies anxiety and impairs cognitive function. 7+ hours. Non-negotiable.
Limit caffeine
If you're anxiety-prone, extra caffeine makes it worse. Stick to your normal intake or less.
The Morning Of
Exercise lightly
A 20-minute walk or light workout burns off excess stress hormones. Don't exhaust yourself, but move your body.
Eat something
Low blood sugar makes anxiety worse and impairs thinking. Eat a real meal, not just coffee.
Review your "wins"
Look at problems you've solved, projects you've built. Remind yourself you've done hard things. This isn't your first rodeo.
Right Before (The Critical 10 Minutes)
The Physiological Reset
Your body affects your mind. Use this to your advantage:
- Box breathing (2 minutes):
Breathe in for 4 counts, hold for 4, out for 4, hold for 4. Repeat. This activates your parasympathetic nervous system - the opposite of fight-or-flight.
- Power pose (2 minutes):
Stand tall, hands on hips or arms raised. Sounds silly, but research shows it reduces cortisol. Your body tells your brain you're confident.
- Cold water on wrists:
Activates the dive reflex, slows heart rate. Quick way to calm the physical symptoms.
- Positive self-talk:
Not "don't be nervous" (that backfires). Instead: "I'm prepared. I know this material. I've solved hard problems before."
During the Interview
It's okay to take a moment
"Let me think about this for a second" is completely acceptable. Interviewers expect it. The pause feels longer to you than to them.
Breathe between answers
One deep breath after each question. It creates a tiny reset and prevents anxiety from compounding.
Focus on the problem, not the stakes
Easier said than done, but try to zoom into just the problem. Pretend you're solving it for fun, not for your career. Sometimes the mental reframe helps.
If you blank, say it
"I'm drawing a blank on the syntax here - let me think..." is better than silent panic. Interviewers are human. They've been there.
Ask for clarification
If you don't understand something, asking questions buys you time to breathe and think. It also shows engagement.
Reframing the Stakes
This mindset shift helped me more than any technique:
"This is one interview at one company. If it doesn't work out, there are thousands of other companies. I've already been rejected before and survived. I will survive this too. The worst case scenario is I get practice."
I know it sounds like toxic positivity, but lowering the perceived stakes genuinely reduces the stress response. When your brain believes "this is life or death," it acts accordingly. When it believes "this is practice with potential upside," it stays calmer.
When Nothing Else Works
Some people have clinical anxiety that goes beyond normal interview nerves. If you've tried everything and still experience debilitating panic, it might be worth talking to a professional. There's no shame in that - it's actually the smart move.
Beta blockers are sometimes prescribed for performance anxiety (they block the physical symptoms without affecting your thinking). Some people use them for public speaking and interviews. Talk to a doctor if you're curious.
After the Interview
Regardless of how it went:
- • Don't ruminate. What's done is done. Replaying mistakes doesn't help.
- • Write down what you learned. One page max. What went well? What to improve?
- • Do something nice for yourself. Interviews are stressful. You deserve a reward for showing up.
- • If you get rejected, ask for feedback. Some companies provide it. Use it.
Final Thoughts
Interview anxiety is common, treatable, and doesn't mean you're not cut out for this career. Some of the best engineers I know struggled with it. They learned to manage it, and so can you.
The techniques above aren't magic. They take practice. But over time, they compound. Each interview gets a little easier. Your brain learns that interviews aren't actual threats.
You've got this. Breathe.
Last updated: January 2026